Going “no contact” is a trend today—the idea that adult kids must cut ties with their parents for the sake of healing and self-care. But how does that line up with Jesus’ command to “be merciful” (Luke 6:36)?
In this three-part series, relationship experts Bill and Pam Farrel share biblical wisdom and real-life insight on how to honestly evaluate your parents without canceling them, how to navigate painful family dynamics with both truth and love, and how to honor God’s design for generations—built on bridges, not burned ones.
If you’ve ever wondered whether distance is the only option, this three-part conversation points to a better way forward.
Find Pam’s story in my new book, Kinda Judgy!
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Kinda Judgy
If you’re tired of being judged—or even more tired of being so judgy, grab a copy of my new book with Moody Publishers: Kinda Judgy: Finding Mercy for Myself and Others in Six Stories of the Bible.
As we step into the stories of Noah, Rahab, Jonah and others, we’ll not only get biblical clarity on judgment and mercy, we’ll encounter the One who melts our judgy hearts with His lavish mercy.
Ready to lay down your gavel? Come find mercy for yourself and others in this six week study.
Kinda Judgy Quiz
Do you think you might be kinda judgy? Take the quiz, get your results, then download my free Judgy Heartcheck.
More from the Judgy Series
You can browse the episodes from the series on this page.
Bill and Pam Farrel
Bill and Pam are the authors of over sixty books, including Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti. They join their voices at marriage and parenting conferences with Bill offering strength and wisdom to men, and Pam encouraging women to be courageous, influential and strong in faith.
Find Bill and Pam’s book in my Amazon list of resources recommended on the show HERE.
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