Take the Quizzes!

how have you been comparing yourself?

let’s start the conversation with some quizzes—the fun kind!

take the quiz as a teen, or as an adult who loves teens! 

friend quiz
Bible Verse vs. Famous Person: Money Edition
talent quiz
Family Matters

about the book:

tired of comparing yourself?

Do you feel the endless pressure of comparing yourself with everyone else? Do you drive yourself to exhaustion, trying to prove you measure up? Or do you retreat to the shadows, convinced you never will? In Comparison Girl for Teens, we want to help you think through the problems of comparison and show you the way to be free.

    • Chapter 1—Welcome to the World of Measuring Up
    • Chapter 2—Comparing Sin
    • Chapter 3—Comparing Beauty
    • Chapter 4—Comparing Femininity
    • Chapter 5—Comparing Popularity
    • Chapter 6—Comparing Possessions
    • Chapter 7—Comparing Talents
    • Chapter 8—Comparing Relationships

We’ve got lots of fun quizzes and stories to share with you, but most of all we want to tell you about Jesus’s healthier, happier way to live me-free! Become a teen who thrives with new freedom, confidence, and influence in a world that compares. 

meet the authors:

Lee Nienhuis

Lee is a passionate Bible teacher who invites girls of all ages to pray boldly and believe God for their own generation and the next. Lee’s books include Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting and she cohosts several podcasts.

Lee and her husband, Mike, have four great kids and live at a Christian Camp in West Michigan. When she isn’t at sporting events or whipping up dinners, she loves hot cups of coffee, deep friendships and laughing till her sides ache. Find Lee on Instagram, Facebook.

Go to LeeNienhuis.com for more. 

Shannon Popkin

Shannon loves to invite people to open the Bible, drink deeply of God’s story, and live like it’s true! Shannon’s books include  Control Girl, Comparison Girl, Comparison Girl for Teens, and Shaped by God’s Promises. Shannon also hosts the Live Like It’s True Bible podcast. 

Shannon loves being married to Ken, who makes her laugh every day. She has three young adult kids and an adorable scardy-dog named Louie. Find Shannon on Instagram, Facebook, or Youtube.

Go to ShannonPopkin.com for more.

How to use the book

We think the best way for your teen(s) to go through this book is with YOU! We hope that moms, grandmas, aunties will not only pick up the book for a teen they love, but have conversations with her along the way. The book is also a great resource for youth groups, mom and daughter groups, or one on one mentoring. We’ve put together a conversation starter for you to download here.

Would you share a photo with me? The first one is my daughter, Lindsay and me—the day I gave her this book, which is dedicated to her (and from Lee to her daughters.) Send me your mother-daughter photo or your teen group with the book, and I’ll feature it here!

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for Grown-up Comparison Girls: 

Are you exhausted by Comparison?

On social media, in the neighborhood, at church, or the school drop-off lane, do you push yourself to prove that you measure up, then feel ashamed when you don’t? Measuring yourself against others isn’t healthy. And it isn’t God’s plan. In fact, the way of Jesus is completely upside down from this measure-up world. He invites us to follow him and be restored to freedom, confidence, and joy.

Join Shannon as she shares what she has discovered about her own measure-up fears and get-ahead pride. With her trademark humor and straightforward honesty, she’s created a six-week study, exploring the conversations Jesus had and stories he shared with people who—like us—were comparing themselves.

Leave measure-up comparison behind and connect with those around you by choosing Jesus’s me-free way of living: lifting others up and pouring yourself out!

SIX WEEK STUDY, TEACHING VIDEOS AVAILABLE

 

join me at TGCW ’24!

The Gospel Coalition Women’s Conference, June 2024

Lee Nienhuis and I are so excited to connect with you in Indianapolis on June 20-22, 2024. Our session is free for all conference attendees (register here) but space is limited!

We’ll be speaking Friday evening on:  “Gospel Thriving for Teens in a World that Compares.” 

Join us and learn how Jesus’s healthier, happier me-free mindset is what sets Comparison Girls free. 

Participants will receive a goodie bag from our publisher, and be entered to win a giveaway bundle. 

what our friends are Saying:

We wish we had this book when we were teens!

Comparison is such a deep struggle for so many women well into adulthood! And the seeds are planted so young.

What an impact this book will have on teens, steering them to Christ, and showing them how to place their worth in Him alone, not in what others say.

Kristen Clark & Bethany Beal

Girl Defined ministry

Oh, how I wish I could go back to my teens and open up this book!

This read is going to break chains and set teen girls free.

Even as I was reading the pages as a twentysomething, the words touched my heart and reminded me of my purpose and what God says about me.

Hope Reagan Harris

Author of "This Is My Happy Place"

Shannon and Lee have written a beautiful book filled with relatable stories, personal prayers, and on-point teaching.

It is a rich gift to this generation of teen girls—really, to any woman who’s humble enough to pick it up and learn
to live ‘me-free.

Paula Hendricks-Marsteller

Author of "Confessions of a boy-Crazy girl"

This book isn’t afraid to go deep and get to the heart of issues like body image, gender identity, and comparison.

Our girls need need the whole truth of the gospel to see the why behind their struggle. This book does just that. Comparison Girl for Teens graciously points girls to the only one who can cure all our comparison issues and insecurities: Jesus.

Heather creekmore

Author of "Compared to Who?"

Purchase Options

We would love to serve your teen girls with this book! Contact Shannon using the form or at shannon@shannonpopkin.com for group discounts.

interviews with Lee & Shannon:

Roots of Comparison Where does this problem come from and how can we help our teens (and ourselves) break free? Join Lee all month on the show, as she talks about comparison. 

The Martha and Mary Show

Lee Nienhuis

Comparison Vs. Identity in Christ There’s a better way to live and see others. It’s the Jesus way.

Moms in Prayer

Christian Parenting

When the Teen You Love is Stuck in the Comparison Trap Hear the backstory and passion for this book, straight from my co-author and me. 

Live Like It's True

Shannon Popkin

How to Help Teen Girls Overcome Comparison Explore how teens can break free and how moms and grandmas can help.

No More Perfect Podcast

Jill Savage

Do you obsess over how you measure up? There’s an enemy who would love for you to fall into defeat. But Jesus invites you to arm yourself and fight back with truth. Here are four ways.

4 Ways Women Can Fight the "Comparison Trap”

iBelieve

Comparison Girl for Teens Ready to hear how you can train your children to navigate comparison well? Let’s go!

You Can Tell the Children

Kori Pennypacker

Comparing Femininity: What are the various ways we compare femininity, both as teens and moms, grandmas, etc. Lee and Shannon talk about this important chapter from their new book.  

The Martha and Mary Show

Lee Nienhuis

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