Control Girl: Lessons on Surrendering Your Burden of Control from Seven Women in the Bible is available wherever books are sold, including Amazon, Christian Book Distributors, and Barnes & Noble. (Of these three, the only one that has the book in stock is Barnes & Noble, listed at $9.85–which is also the lowest price right now.) It released on January 27, 2017.
Little fights with your husband and kids. Unhappiness when things don’t match your version of perfect. Tension, anger, fear, anxiety–it all begins with a heart that craves control. When your perspective of how life should go replaces God’s, you doom your quest for security, peace, and joy before it even starts.
Thankfully, there is a better way.
Join Shannon as she shares what she has discovered about her own control struggles and about God from studying seven Control Girls in the Bible. Whether it was Eve’s desire to know instead of trust, Sarah’s inability to wait for God to move, or Rebekah’s controlling hand on her family’s future, each of these women’s stories contain warnings and lessons for us today.
Learn how you too can lay down this burden of trying to control everything and find rest in surrendering to the One who truly is in control.
How the Book is Arranged
This book is designed the book to work well, both for the individual, and for groups. (See a note to leaders.) Control Girl divides each chapter into “lessons”, which allow the reader on a time budget to engage a complete train of thought as she reads the chapters part-by-part. Each lesson begins with a correlating Bible passage, and ends with several application questions along with one truth from the lesson to meditate on. (Download FREE meditation cards here.)
There are nine chapters in the book:
- 1 Path of a Control Girl
- 2 Eve: It Looked Good to Me
- 3 Sarah: It’s Up to Me
- 4 Hagar: Out from Under Her Control
- 5 Rebekah: Standing in for God
- 6 Leah: Invisible and Unloved
- 7 Rachel: When She Has More
- 8 Miriam: Taking the Lead
- 9 Control Girl to Jesus Girl
Group Discussion Guide for Leaders
Leaders, thanks so much for considering this book for your group’s study! Please consider downloading the FREE Discussion Guide which will help draw your women into meaningful discussion centered on God’s Word, as you work through the book together.
You might want to consider making this a ten week study (with one week of introduction) or a nine week study if your group needs no introductory week.
Reflections on Surrender (just released Dec. 2016!) is an adult coloring book, filled with truth about control, ourselves, and God–messages that closely correlate with Control Girl. While you don’t have to work through the Bible study to enjoy the coloring book, the two do compliment each other nicely.
The original artwork in Reflections on Surrender was done by Janyre Tromp
(who, by the way, was also the editor for Control Girl). We hope that as you add color and design to the artwork, you’ll also soak your heart in the truth on each page.
Let Shannon Help You with Kick-off!
West Michigan groups, Shannon would love to come help kick off your study, or come for a Q&A, sometime. Long distance groups, Shannon is happy to consider coming to speak for your group, or using Skype or Facebook Live to connect live. (More speaking info here).
Shannon’s Control Girl Retreat is also a great way to kick off the study for your group. (Your group would pick up the study at Chapter 2 after the retreat.). Please connect with her if you’re interested in any of these options. You can either email her directly at firstname.lastname@example.org or using the comment form below.
At the end of each lesson in the book is a “for meditation” section. Our hope in providing these truths and verses, is to help women build a bridge between what they say is true (God is in control) and how they actually live (as though they have to control everything).
But we want to make it easier yet! By using eaither the “Control Girl” tab at the top of this page, or clicking here, please find a set of FREE downloadable meditation cards, arranged by lesson (sampler pack available now). You can print these as 4×6 cards or photos, or you can share and save them digitally–all for free!
Also on this page are some guidance and ideas for how to use the cards.
2 x 4 Inch Labels
In the introduction for the book, Shannon suggests keeping a journal of your personal responses to the application questions at the end of each lesson.
Just for fun, here are some labels that you can print off for the cover of your group’s journals (or feel free to use them however you like!).
Here’s a pdf that will work for Avery (or off brand) 2 x 4 inch labels, 10 per page:
(Or save the jpg above to print a single label).
Thanks for considering Control Girl, along with our various other companion resources. My hope and desire is that each of us might leave behind the weak-hearted, selfish ways of the Control Girl, and little-by-little, become Jesus Girls instead.
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