Control Girl: Lessons on Surrendering Your Burden of Control from Seven Women in the Bible is available for pre-release sale at Amazon, Christian Book Distributors, and Barnes & Noble. It’s release date is January 27, 2017
Little fights with your husband and kids. Unhappiness when things don’t match your version of perfect. Tension, anger, fear, anxiety–it all begins with a heart that craves control. When your perspective of how life should go replaces God’s, you doom your quest for security, peace, and joy before it even starts.
Thankfully, there is a better way.
Join Shannon as she shares what she has discovered about her own control struggles and about God from studying seven Control Girls in the Bible. Whether it was Eve’s desire to know instead of trust, Sarah’s inability to wait for God to move, or Rebekah’s controlling hand on her family’s future, each of these women’s stories contain warnings and lessons for us today.
Learn how you too can lay down this burden of trying to control everything and find rest in surrendering to the One who truly is in control.
How the Book is Arranged
Thanks so much for considering my book, Control Girl. I’m so excited to share with you all of the things God has been showing me about my ongoing struggle with control.
I’ve designed the book to work well, both for the individual, and in groups. (A note to leaders below.) Control Girl divides each chapter into “lessons”, which allow the reader on a time budget to engage a complete train of thought as she reads the chapters part-by-part. Each lesson begins with a correlating Bible passage, and ends with several application questions along with one truth from the lesson to meditate on. (Download FREE meditation cards here.)
There are nine chapters in the book:
- Path of a Control Girl
- Eve: It Looked Good to Me
- Sarah: It’s Up to Me
- Hagar: Out from Under Her Control
- Rebekah: Standing in for God
- Leah: Invisible and Unloved
- Rachel: When She Has More
- Miriam: Taking the Lead
- Control Girl to Jesus Girl
Group Discussion Guide for Leaders
Leaders, thanks so much for considering this book for your group’s study! Please consider downloading the FREE Discussion Guide (coming soon) which will help draw your women into meaningful discussion centered on God’s Word, as you work through the book together.
You might want to consider making this a ten week study, with one week of introduction, or a nine week study if your group needs not introductory week.
Reflections on Surrender (just released on Dec. 15, 2016!) is an adult coloring book, filled with truth about control, ourselves, and God–messages that closely correlate with Control Girl. While you don’t have to work through the Bible study to enjoy the coloring book, we thought it might be nice to offer them as compliments to each other.
The original artwork in Reflections on Surrender was done by Janyre Tromp
(who, by the way, was also the editor for Control Girl). Janyre and I hope that as you add color and design to the artwork, you’ll also soak your heart in the truth on the page.
Let me Help You with Kick-off!
West Michigan groups, I would love to come help kick off your study or answer questions at the end! Long distance groups, I would be happy to consider coming to speak for your group, or using Skype or Facebook Live to connect live with your group. (More speaking info here).
My Control Girl Retreat is also a great way to kick off the study for your group. (Your group would pick up the study at Chapter 2 after the retreat.). Please connect with me if you’re interested in any of these options. You can either email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or using the comment form below.
At the end of each lesson in the book is a “for meditation” section. My hope in providing these truths and verses, is to help women build a bridge between what they say is true (God is in control) and how they actually live (as though they have to control everything).
But I want to make it easier yet! By using eaither the “Control Girl” tab at the top of this page, or clicking here, please find my FREE downloadable meditation cards, arranged by lesson (sampler pack available now). You can print these as 4×6 cards or photos, or you can share and save them digitally–all for free!
Also on this page are some guidance and ideas for how to use the cards.
2 x 4 Inch Labels
My hope, as you work through the book, is that you’ll also keep a journal of your personal responses to the application questions at the end of each lesson. Just for fun, here are some labels that you can print off for the cover of your group’s journals (or feel free to use them however you like!).
Here’s a pdf that will work for Avery (or off brand) 2 x 4 inch labels, 10 per page:
(Or save the jpg above to print a single label).
Thanks again for considering Control Girl, along with our various other companion resources. My hope and desire with this book and resources is that each of us might leave behind the weak-hearted, selfish ways of the Control Girl, and little-by-little, become Jesus Girls instead.
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